Families are stressed out about getting into college.
They’re also stressed out about paying for college.
All this is not breaking news to most families with teenage children. However, since these survey results are from readers of Princeton Review’s “Best Colleges” guidebook and users of their website, they are not really representative of the general population. These survey respondents are more likely to be overly obsessed with the college application process than the average person.
Most families believe providing a college education for their children is very important, but are probably not “extremely” stressed out about it.
It is important to plan for college, but it’s unhealthy to become obsessed with the process. Here’s some advice from parents and children on dealing with the stress.
Don’t spend too much time comparing notes with others going through the process. Makes people crazy. …
Make sure to take the college process in steps and you won’t feel so overwhelmed….
Don’t freak out. College is not the end of your life. Everything will be OK….
Have fun with it! If you enjoy the process along the way, the outcome will hopefully be more beneficial….
Thoughtful planning is good, and deep breaths can also help.